Jesse James: Be Warned

You can see all the interview at RadarOnline.

When I watch Jesse James in the interview from ABC’s Nightline, I see a man who feels threatened by Sandra. I absolutely believe him when he says, “It’s about trying to push someone away that I thought was going to leave anyway.” At another point in the interview, he says, “I never felt good enough for anyone.” When James says this, I absolutely believe him.

I personally believe James saw what Sandra was made of, and felt he could never complete. Instead of dealing with his shortcomings and improving himself, James took the easy way out and indulged himself with people that made him feel worthy and important–without any regard for how that would impact his marriage or his children.

It appears this is all about James, and no one else.

James wants to feel like he is the top dog and that’s where he strayed–in circles where he felt he was the star. With Sandra, he was never going to get that. That’s why I think he truly wanted to get caught. I think he wanted his marriage to end, because he couldn’t handle Sandra getting all the attention. It just reinforced to James all of his shortcomings and he didn’t want any part of that!

James is strangely arrogant, if you ask me, which I wouldn’t expect if he was truly remorseful for what he did. While he owns up to his actions in words, his emotions are completely void and unsupportive. I simply see a man saying what he has to say without any conviction or buy in.

The only pain James feels is when he cries over his pain. This behavior, if you ask me, is a recipe for James to continue to be destructive towards others in his life. For me, it is a big warning to thread carefully. Arrogance and a lack of remorse are quite a devastating combination for those who come into James’ inner circle.

Thanks, to Celebitchy, for the story lead.