Are moms good at spotting lies?

If you didn’t see Dateline on Sunday night, and you are a parent of a teenager, I highly recommend it. If there is one group of people who I meet who consistently tell me they are good at spotting lies, its moms. They watch their children lie and feel confidentially they can call it out, but in the presence of many, I can tell you they don’t see the clues as often as they think they do, and often misjudge the situation.

Here is an interesting article from Psychology Today: Is Your Teen Trustworthy? Can you Tell?

Quoted from the article:

  • 57% of the time mothers believed that adolescents were telling the truth, teens really were
  • 33% of the time mothers believed adolescents were lying, teens said they were telling the truth

What do you think? Do you trust your teenager not to get in a car with a drunk driver? 

Truth or Lie: Monsters on the Loose

Tyler Hamilton Talks about Lance Armstrong

This is a fascinating video of Tyler Hamilton talking about Lance Armstrong and doping in the sport of cycling.  I suspect we are going to get a big spread of opinions when asked, “Do you believe Tyler Hamilton?”  Check back this week for my analysis.

Ingrid Betancourt

Former FARC hostage, French-Colombian Ingrid Betancourt smiles during a news conference amid a ceremony for the two-year anniversary of Operation Jaque , a Colombian military operation that freed 15 hostages including Betancourt, at a military school in Bogota July 2, 2010. REUTERS/John Vizcaino (COLOMBIA - Tags: POLITICS ANNIVERSARY CIVIL UNREST)

I watched Ingrid Betancourt on Oprah this week. She was running for the President of Columbia in 2002 when she went into an unsafe area controlled by leftist guerrillas against the advice of her security experts, and she was kidnapped and kept in a Colombian jungle for six years as a hostage. She is now doing a media tour to kick off the release of her book, “Even Silence Has an End.”

While she went through an absolutely horrific ordeal that no one should ever have to endure, I was troubled by what the other hostages and her campaign running mate said about Betancourt. Clara Rojas, Betancourt’s vice presidential running mate and campaign manager, said that Betancourt’s book is full of “lies and spite”.

In watching Betancourt’s demeanor on Oprah and hearing her at one point say something to the effect she believed it was her right, and then abruptly stopping as she said it…clearly self-censoring herself, I tend to believe the people who have spoken out against Betancourt.

Furthermore, Betancourt’s own husband has filed divorce citing infidelity and ungratefulness. Clearly, no one stands in support of Betancourt and with that, I am surprised Oprah gave her an hour show.

From Deutsche Welle, Betancourt’s own words are quite telling:

I wasn’t sensitive enough to understand their despair,” she writes of the other hostages who did not have her celebrity status. “I saw myself as a symbol that could be useful for all of us. I did not understand that everyone needs to have a face.

Betancourt comes across as very selfish, self-centered and arrogant. You know what I say about arrogant people… I certainly don’t care to read her book.

Robots Learn to Lie?

shot of a battery operated toy robot

The International Journal of Social Robotics published an article about robots and deception earlier this month. The research was funded by the Office of Naval Research. Here is a synopsis of it written by Discovery News.

What do you think about robots deceiving us?

I think it is scary!!

Will computers take over the world as we know it one day?

Thanks, Doux, for the article!