Brad Cooper Found Guilty of First-Degree Murder

Brad Cooper was found guilty today of first degree murder after an 8-week long trial.  His wife Nancy Cooper disappeared in the middle of their divorce, though they were still living together.  Her body was found strangled and in a drainage ditch  two days after it was reported that she went jogging and never came home.

Originally, Brad didn’t speak out in the media except to thank people for their efforts to search for wife, but as soon as I saw small snippets from his deposition, it became clear to me that Brad wasn’t being honest.  You can read my original thoughts here.

The judge sentenced Cooper today to life in prison without the possibility of parole.  Justice, if you ask me, has been served!

Misty Croslin Talks from Prison


 

Misty Croslin, who was last to see Haleigh Cummings alive, decided to give her story of what happened the night Haleigh disappeared again because she says, “Everyone is against me.”  She does this interview from prison as she is serving a 25-year sentence for drug trafficking. Misty Croslin was the girlfriend of Haleigh’s father, Ronald Cumming. 

Misty rehashes the details of what happened the night Haleigh went missing, and what she says this time is a completely different story than what she gave in 2009.  In this interview, she says, “I woke up…I don’t know why I woke up…and the kitchen light was on…I ran to the bathroom…or I ran to the kitchen to see what was going on. I thought Ronald was home, and he wasn’t there, so I ran to my room to get my cell phone to call him.  He wouldn’t answer his phone over 20 times. I turn around, she’s not in her bed.”

In 2009, Misty told us she, “woke up because she had to use the bathroom, but I didn’t make it to the bathroom. I’d seen the kitchen light on, and I walked in the kitchen and back door is wide open.  And I didn’t notice Haleigh missing then until I’d seen the back door open and I go in the room and she’s gone.”  (See here).

I do believe that Misty loved those kids, and if something happened under her watch, it would have been an accident or lack of proper oversight (due to her immaturity or drug use).  However, having watched Ronald Cummings for the past couple of years, if he was uninvolved, his behavior would have been very different towards Misty. In my opinion, both of these two know what happened and know if the truth comes out, it will only make things worse for each of them so they continue to hold on to what look like stories to me, not the truth.

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Sorry for the oversight in the first draft of this post.  I heard Misty wrong. Thank you, Sophie, for pointing that out.  I apologize.

Royal Wedding of William & Kate

Many of you have asked my opinion on the royal couple. Compared to Prince William’s mom, Princess Diana, I think this couple stands a real chance at success in their relationship. When young Princess Diana wed her more mature prince, Charles, 30 years ago, the relationship was unbalanced on many levels. Diane was unsure of herself, and didn’t know who she was. Charles was in his element. It took Diana years to find her footing and place in the world, and when she did, she realized they were very different people with opposite values in life.

With Kate and Will, we have maturity in the both of them and a solid sense of self in each. They are both well grounded and seem to know what they want, which is important for success in anything we seek to do. I suspect with that, they have a good idea that they share similar interests.

When I look at Kate, she gives us lots of genuine smiles.

William on the other hand does not. His face strains in almost a painful way when he puts on the “media grin” as I call it, but it is logical, considering he is expected to smile every time he is in public, and has had to do so for his entire life. When I look at the media images of Prince William, it is a common face, so I do not use it to judge his emotions towards Kate. It seems to be his baseline behavior when in the media.  It is much less common for the media to capture true emotions out of William in their photographs.

Talking of smiles, I was actually quite surprised at the photo released to the media by the royal family before their wedding.  The grin on Prince William was painful. I would call it a torturous smile — so forced it almost hurts him to do it.   They need a facial expression expert to help them before they release official photos!

To judge William, I would need to see him one-on-one with Kate to have more of an honest critique of his true feelings outside of the media glare. Prince William understandably has a distaste for the paparazzi–considering how his mom died.

But from the outside looking in, I’d say this couple has a good start, likely a solid foundation and will stay together for many years.

Mattress Failure Replacement Raises Eyebrows

found floral by Duchamp
found floral, a photo by Duchamp on Flickr.

Our lovely mattress from four years ago by Simmons is failing. The side support wire is bowing out more than 2 inches and hence gives us no support. It just bows out sideways when we lay on it. I read the warranty and thought it wasn’t covered, but being frustrated, I finally called the store where we bought it. They sent out a service rep at no charge to inspect the mattress and after he left, a few days later, I got an email stating our mattress was determined to be defective and that Simmons agreed to replace it. Needless to say I was happy, but the customer service since then has driven me a bit crazy.

I called the store to order the replacement and I was informed that they would like me to try out the new replacement at the store. I agree. I went to the store, met a salesman and he pulled up my account. It clearly showed a credit for the full amount of my purchase. He first told me I could apply that to anything I wanted. I asked him to clarify that as it was not what I understood. He found out he was wrong. I could only apply it to other Simmons products. That’s fine, so I agreed to the replacement they recommended and wanted to set up delivery. The salesman told me he couldn’t do that to call the customer service number online.

So yesterday I went online to order it. I was told online that a customer service rep would call me once I tried to place the order. A woman called. She told me that they weren’t replacing my box spring, only the failed mattress, which is now a different model. That piqued my interest because the credit amount I saw at the store was for a full replacement of both the mattress and the box spring. I immediately called Simmons directly and they verified that they will only replace the mattress. Interesting how if I buy a new mattress, my warranty is void if I don’t buy the matching box spring, but if they replace it, it doesn’t matter.

Now today customer service called and told me that once I pay for delivery online, they will go ahead and ORDER the mattress from Simmons. I questioned the customer service rep, “But it says you have these in stock online.” He confirmed they did, but that since I was getting a replacement, it would come directly from Simmons for me.

That doesn’t give me a lot of confidence. I even told the guy why on earth would I need a special mattress for my replacement? Are they giving me something substandard or what? It makes no sense why they would do this as shipping a single mattress is more expensive, and companies don’t do things that aren’t to their benefit. I am not confident I am going to get an honest replacement at this point.

I would like an answer as to why they do this.

I called Simmons and the rep told me that they do this for inventory management only. They said the store pays for the other mattresses it receives and this helps keep the two separate, because this mattress will be sent at no charge. That sounds ridiculous to me. Frankly, if the store where I bought this gave me one of theirs, they could then take the replacement and put it back into their inventory and it wouldn’t be any different.

All I can say is this doesn’t do much for customer confidence in an already poor product. I’m concerned about what I will be getting…to say the least.

Expression of the Day

Baby Food, Holli by m!les
Baby Food, Holli, a photo by m!les on Flickr.

When is the last time you made this expression?  I bet you can’t remember! I can assure you that you have made and will continue to make this expression. I find it fascinating that our face moves and expresses emotions that we are not aware of?!

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While on the plane the other day, I struck up a conversation with the gentlemen next to me.  I was talking about the New York buses and subways, and when he talked about it, I noticed him making an expression of disgust.  About the third time I saw it, I said to him, “Something about the buses or subway disgusts you.  You keep making a classic expression of disgust.”  He laughed and said that every time he is with his mom that she wants to take the bus, and he hates being gridlocked into traffic on a bus.  He finds that disgusting! He prefers the subway.

Next time someone makes a classic expression, ask them why they are feeling that way.  It’s illuminating and interesting, and it will help you start to understand people around you better.