Thinking in Pictures

Temple Grandin is absolutely fascinating to listen to! I just love her. She talks about what makes her different in the video above–if you have time–it’s a fascinating speech!

She talks about how people with autism process communication.

When you listen to someone tell you a story, how to think about it? Do you think in language or perhaps pictures? Or maybe a combination of both?

I have known for a while I think in pictures for most of my thoughts, but I thought everyone did. I don’t even know if I can even think verbally. I never see words. I always see images. I paint movies in my head like Temple Grandin talks about.

I have realized some of my ability to pick out liars comes from being a visual person. I paint the stories people tell as images in my head and make mental movies of them, so when people change their stories, I see the movies and know the story has changed. I don’t think at all in terms of words, though words can stand out to me. This concept is rather perplexing to me.

I, like Temple Grandin, thought most people thought in pictures.

How do you think?

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The Story of Eyeglass Lies

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I recently went out to get new glasses as its been two years since my last pair.   I went to a well known eyeglass store to pick my frames after getting my prescription at an ophthalmologist.  I worried about doing this because I know if things don’t go right they can each point the finger at the other, and I’ll be caught in the middle.

I went during the day to try to get the best service (instead of after hour part-time help).  I walked in to pick up my prescription.  The clerk found my prescription, put them on and asked me what I thought.

I looked around, looked down and tried to read. I could read at the very bottom of my progressives, but it was a very small slice of space-smaller than my last pair. That alerted me that something wasn’t right.  I then looked at the distance and compared the new glasses to my old prescription.  The distance was the same. I could see clearly.

But what I noticed was the intermediate was blurry. I could not hold a magazine and read it.  I couldn’t see my husband  in focus who was sitting next to me in a chair. He was blurry.

The clerk at the shop said to me that my husband was too close. He had to scoot back.

What???

Mind you he was about one to two feet away.

I about died.  

I then turned back to the clerk and said, “I can’t function telling everyone I interact with to move away so I can see them! That’s not my problem–it’s your problem!  These glasses aren’t right.”

She looked at me, took the glasses and said, “Yes, I agree. You need to go back to your doctor and have him fix it. Something is wrong with your prescription.”

I about died again!!!  Seriously??

This woman was lying with incredible ease. Simple plain logic told me that.

I retorted back losing my patience, “I can see far, and I can see near–but I can’t see intermediate. That’s not a prescription problem. That’s YOUR PROBLEM. It’s a progressive problem!! These were made wrong!”

I put the glasses on the table mad at this point, and she knew it. The game was over.

It didn’t take the clerk but a few seconds to say, “Yes, I don’t think these work for you. They need to be fixed.”

Hello!

She tried to push it off on me and when that didn’t work, she pushed it back to the doctor!  And when I didn’t buy her nonsense either time, she finally fessed up.

I am appalled at how quickly businesses will lie to you today.  More and more businesses are lying to save a dollar when they make the mistakes! They are masters at pushing their problems on to you, and the ease with which this woman did this, I can assure you it happens all day long.

I suspect many good kind people trust the eyeglass shops and their workers to know eyeglasses better than they do.  It’s natural to believe that!  I wonder how many people go home and just accept they have to adjust instead of having the glasses adjusted so they can see properly?  And how many people trust the clerk’s recommendation to go to the doctor, make an appointment and waste a whole bunch more time–only be told they are the monkey in the middle?   I cringe to think about it.

In the end, all they get is the run-around which is designed to wear them down. If you aren’t good on your feet and good at calling out liars, you will just end up feeling frustrated and likely settle. And businesses know that.

I’ve seen it happen to me time-and-time again!

That wasn’t the worst of it. They also charged me without asking me for insurance and a lens kit–neither of which I wanted. I found out by calling my insurance company directly, I didn’t need it their insurance–I already had it for free– and they knew it!  That reduced the price of my out-of-pocket by one-third which is quite considerable.

Buyer beware! 

I can’t stress that enough.

 

M370 Pilot Behavior Raises Red Flag

Today MSN.com reveals that….

“Malaysia acknowledged for the first time that one of the pilots of Malaysia Airlines Flight 370 had plotted a course on his home flight simulator to the southern Indian Ocean, where the missing jet is believed to have crashed.”

That should certainly raise eyebrows, don’t you think?

Well, back on March 19, 2014, I blogged about Captain Zaharie Ahmad Shah because his face show personality propensities –personality traits–that gave me some concern. The co-pilot did not.

When I looked at photos of the pilot, his face showed he likely had a deviant side to his personality which would cause me not to trust him:   Read my thoughts here. 

Why would this information be important?  Because it can speed up investigations dramatically when we can identify how people are likely to be behave, and can hone into questions based on this information.   It doesn’t mean anyone did anything, but we have information that we need to rule in or out much faster.  And getting to the heart of this information can move you to the truth much quicker.

Take for example a person who is very arrogant in a photograph. If you can’t see it, you start out with zero information about the person.

If you do see it, you have information upon which to dig for facts.  It doesn’t mean the person has done anything, but it increases the likelihood there is a propensity for issues. Arrogant people, as an example, put themselves above all other people, right?  They are “self-important” — that’s what arrogant is.  That means they have a higher propensity to cause harm to another person (use a person, etc) — compared to a person who shows humility.

It’s simple logic.

In this case, I would have put investigators on the pilot immediately to seek out any evidence of past deviant behavior. Is there any evidence to suggest it?   I would also dig into why he also showed contempt in several photos. Contempt is a moral superiority, or a looked down upon someone.  Both of these raise red flags that need to be immediately understood, and many, many times, we do find supportive facts that there is reason for concern.

This speeds up investigations dramatically.

Scientists have been studying personality identification at zero acquaintance and are finding people can accurately see personality traits in photographs of people (Don’t believe it–read here). And with all things, some people are better at it than others.  I do caution people to not use this tool unless you understand human behavior at a deep, deep level.  But I do believe we should harness experts who are good at this. They have the power to really help in cases like this much faster than a person who doesn’t have this ability.

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Understanding People Through Faces

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Do you ever take the time to look at a person’s face to see what it is communicating?  We naturally decode emotions such as happiness, and sadness, anger and surprise, but do you look at a face deeper for more revealing information?

To my surprise most people don’t.

Do you look to see if someone is open or closed off?  For example, in the photo above, do you think the girl would be receptive to you if you made a request  to help you pick up some books in a school library?  Or do you think she’d reject you? And why do you think that?

Do you think this girl is an extrovert or an introvert?

I don’t personally know this child, but she reveals key elements about her personality by her facial features and expression.  She shows a very slight shyness. Can you see it?  Yet she shows a symmetrical face. Symmetrical people are often very outgoing.  Yet she shows a “grounded nature” about her–no arrogance or superiority.  These attributes all can give you an indication of how someone might behave, if you think about it.

A slightly shy person is likely to be very polite.  A symmetrical faced-person is likely quite social in comfortable settings.  With these two things, I suspect this young girl would be helpful when asked to assist someone in a safe environment such as a library. She would be very polite.

Can you see that?

Faces reveal so much information about people, it’s truly astounding. And once you can discern a few elements from a face, you can logically deduce many other attributes about people successfully.

Take for example someone who shows tension on their face, when you see anger, do you think that person has a higher propensity to lash out?  Of course they do.  It’s not a guarantee, but its a higher propensity.  Compare that person to a person with a relaxed happy face who shows a sign of anger. Do you think they would have a high probability to lash out?  Not near as likely.

Here is an article that talks about some of the discoveries science is making about our face and personality:
Does Your Face Tell Anything About Your Personality?

Next time you have a few minutes, look at someone’s face and ponder some basic questions. Can you see if they are introverted or extroverted? Are they tense?  Do they appear relaxed? Are their signs of stress in the face?  What can these reveal?