Going to the Salon

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Photo above from Flickr — not me just so you know ; )

I go to a small boutique like salon to get my haircut.  The guy who owns and runs the place is a top stylist from Chicago who broke off to work on his own.  His salon is quite elegant. He has amazing style and is witty and intelligent.  I really connect with him.  Needless to say, when I am there we talk like crazy.  He knows all about what I do and seems to enjoy my facial profiling.

Today when I arrived, he informed me that he had a quick bang cut coming in before me and that as soon as she was done, he’s get to me.  I had arrived early.  When she arrived, she brought her dog–which I just loved.  He is a dog lover and allows his customers to bring their dogs to his shop.  The woman’s dog was just beautiful.  He was a black border collie, but quite petite.  I started talking to him immediately and he was drawn to me.  I could see he liked the way I talked to him and caressed his face.  Unfortunately, I didn’t really pay much attention to the woman.

As the woman was getting her bangs cut, I noticed that the dog had on a prong collar and it was so tight, it was digging into his skin.  I was mortified. I attempted to see if I could loosen it and as I looked for the clasp, the woman reared the corner.  I pretended to be petting the dog.

She walked around the corner into the room where I was at and she looked at her dog who just  left my arms to run to the door and she said “Traitor” to her dog for giving me affection.  That spoke volumes of this woman’s personality, and it was not good. It was in fact quite ugly.  She didn’t say it in a joking manner.

I ignored her comment. Instead I politely said, “Do you realize this dog’s collar is tight?”  She said, “I do.  It’s INTENTIONAL.”

I was deeply disturbed by her response. My hair stood up on the back of my neck.  I could immediately tell this woman was viciously evil and without compassion for anything.

I looked straight back at her and said, “That’s cruel” and she ignored me. She was cold as ice.

As soon as she left the salon, I said to the owner, “She is flat out evil” as my lips made a distinct disgust expression. I felt violated by this woman. My heart was pounding.

He said to me, “You didn’t see her very long to pick up on that.  Yes, she is evil.”  He went on to tell me she was a callous cold, gold-digging cheater.

When people drop hints of who they are–trust them.  They act that way for a reason. When people show a lack of compassion–its a powerful statement of who they are. 

If I see this woman again, I will keep my distance physically.  She makes the hair on my neck stand up. She makes my heart race.  She makes me feel violated.  I feel so horrible for her dog. He deserves so much better than her…

What’s in a Face?

baavla, the charmer

I have believed for years that our face communicates a wealth of information.  It’s the biggest source of information that a person reveals unknowingly, and I use this information constantly as a baseline to what a person says. I call it facial profiling.

It’s been awesome to see science starting to study the face and what it reveals.  More and more research is coming out in support that our face does reveal valuable information, if we pay attention to it.

Here is an interesting article sent to me from an Eyes for Lies reader, J.M.

Morgan Ingram’s Parents and Accused on Dr. Phil

Dr. Phil had on the story of Morgan Ingram. Morgan was found dead in her bedroom at the age of 20, and police at first thought it was a drug overdose, but then labeled her death as suicide.

She was found with high levels of Amitriptyline in her system, a drug which she once used to take.

Morgan’s parents went on Dr. Phil yesterday to accuse an ex-friend of Morgan, Brooke, and Brooke’s ex-boyfriend as well as her father. It was very sad to see because the parents have no supporting evidence but are truly causing Brooke and her friends and family serious grief.

I believe neither Brooke nor her father are in any way involved in Morgan’s death. I feel horrible for Morgan’s parents, but making accusations at people without facts is a dangerous, cruel and unfair thing to do to anybody.  Worse, making baseless accusations will not help Morgan’s parents get closer to the truth.

There is a chance that Morgan’s mom can’t cope with the fact her daughter committed suicide or overdose, and is in complete denial because she can’t accept that–especially since they shared words that night–the last time they saw each other. Or there could be more going on with Morgan and her mom here. 

I think Morgan’s parents would be much better served by hiring a private investigator to track down the source of drugs that killed Morgan, if they want the real truth, which I question at this point.

There are definitely people out there that know where Morgan got this drug, and with some sleuthing that should be able to be found.  Or if Morgan didn’t get the drug, who did? 

Once the source is found, the truth will come to light. I think it is very possible that Morgan could have committed suicide or overdosed. It is possible she didn’t, of course, but then I would start my investigation from inside the house first with those who were in the home when she died and I’d work outwards.

Sadly, the person who was not forthright on the Dr. Phil was Morgan’s mom.  My heart goes out to her in her loss, but if she wants to get to the truth, she needs to be factual and honest, too.

Police and FBI Search for Stacy Peterson

The police and FBI have been searching for Stacy Peterson in Shorewood, Illiniois, for the past few days hoping to locate her remains.  So far, they haven’t been successful, but let’s hope their luck changes!