Many people are interested in the murder trial of Alex Murdaugh, a lawyer from a prominent legal family for decades in South Carolina, accused of killing his son and wife.
To me, as the story was unfolding in the news in 2021, I was dumbfounded at the multiple one-in-a-million scenarios that were swirling around Murdaugh. When you see that, always take notice. Bad things can happen 1-in-a-million times, maybe twice: but three, four or five times??
No, that’s too unlikely with just plain old statistical odds alone.
That’s your first massive red flag.
Then when that person with these multiple 1-in-a-million odd stories, turns out to be an admitted liar? And are caught in lie after lie after lie?
Your red flags are on FIRE!
Just say’n.
ON FIRE in capital letters!
Murdaugh is riddled with inconsistencies everywhere I looked and still look.
Above and beyond the murders of his son and wife, he is facing over 100 charges (according to the news I am reading) for money laundering, stealing millions from the family business and clients, to tax evasion, and being involved in roadside shooting incident that has hotter than coals on fire when it happened where his living son stood to gain $10 million in insurance money.
I am still open to look at clips of the case, if people want to post them in the comments. Everyone should have a right to a fair trial.
I do have one question for anyone who believes him, why do you believe him, if you would courageously share it with me privately or in the comments.
HEADSHAKES
I know people are looking at his testimony to see what clues he drops. In the video above, a reader has asked, does Alex Murdaugh’s headshakes indicate deception?
My answer is no.
This is not a classical presentation of an inconsistent nod or head shake. To understand headshakes, you must understand human behavior at a deeper level.
It’s not black and white.
Murdaugh’s headshakes are a rather odd behavior, to be honest.
I’m scratching my head with them. I want to see more: Is this being done intentionally because he knows about this signal so he is trying to confuse us?
Or is this just a weird behavioral quirk unique to Murdaugh?
I suspect it is the latter, but he is a polished liar so I am curious about the first! If you see more videos of him doing this–please post links and time makers!! I’d like to figure this out.
Does he do it at other times when answering questions? Is it consistent when he tells the truth andlies? We have him caught in enough lies to look at this. If he only does it with his lies, it will make me go hmmm….
WHO DOES THIS?
If you watch Murdaugh in multiple interviews, you can clearly see this man can lie without a flinch, with no outward signs in interviews.
There are people who can do this. Always know this! But its very rare.
The most evil among us are capable of this, and often can get away with a lot of crimes because they can not only lie without any emotional remorse, BUT they know how to play on other people’s emotions skillfully and with precision to fool them!
Many highly intelligent psychopaths get away with some horrific stuff because of this.
Is Murdaugh a psychopath? It is plausible here.
To get up on the stand in a case like this is ultra-risky, but it is a common practice for psychopaths to do. They think they are brilliant due to all the lies they pulled off successfully over their lifetime. They become so arrogant and cocky they keep convincing themselves they can fool anyone. And Murdaugh being a lawyer, too, he may continue to think he can fool the jury without question.
But I don’t think in this case Murdaugh will do that successfully.
He is grasping at straws to say he lied to investigators about being at the kennels the night of the murders because he didn’t trust SLED, and that he had addiction and was paranoid. Oh, he was paranoid alright but not for the reasons he said. Skilled liars love to lay bits of truth at people’s feet to confuse them.
He was paranoid–that is the truth!! He was afraid that they would connect the dots way before he was prepared to answer! And to that point, he further tries to earn people’s sympathy that night by saying another TRUTHFUL FACT, “I don’t think I was capable of reason.”
That’s the truth! But yikes!! I can imagine his defense team was cringing like crazy when he said that! That was a huge slip up, if you ask me.
He now has put himself at the location of the crime within minutes of when it occurred and admitted he didn’t think he was capable of reason that night. He’s clearly not as smart as he thought he was.
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If you’ve watched Casey Anthony Where The Truth Lies, your head should be spinning! Casey’s words here are all over the place, which is common place for liars who weave complex stories. Casey admits herself that she is a liar–a convicted liar–so this is something you should never forget.
Her entire premise for doing this interview in the end is to blame her dad for killing Caylee, which is done in a very indirect and odd manner, and to say that she was supposedly abused and raped by her dad as a child. Furthermore, Casey wants you to believe as an abused child that she was just continuing the mindset of doing what abused people do–doing what she was “told”.
Was Casey in a toxic environment? Quite possibly. We all witnessed the family in the media struggling in a very high stress situation so you have to take that with an element of caution–all people can look crazy in high stress. So there is some gray there, but it is not as Casey is painting it. Many people grow up in toxic environments, and do not go on to compulsively lie and steal as Casey does. Some do, some don’t. But those who religiously comply with their abusers? They don’t act defiantly as Casey did. That is inconsistent!
Many people want to make a black and white decision. Casey is either completely lying or she isn’t. While some cases of deception are black and white, many times, there is a complex mix of truths and lies. That’s what successful liars do — they blend the truth and lies together so you can’t find reality. And Casey admits that, too! But then she (and other liars) play on YOUR emotional vulnerabilities, twist facts and make you question yourself. Casey checks all the boxes.
There are many clues in this series as to what the truth and lies are. I could write a book just on this series. So I am going to point out some elements mostly from episode 1 that paint a pretty clear picture for you.
When the producer asks Casey why she wants to talk to them now without creative control, Casey shows two non-verbal shrugs of doubt (which I teach in my training), and says “I just need someone to listen.” It’s as if she is just rambling off the top of her head, not giving us a sincere, thought-out answer. She is thinking on her feet here, and shows doubt about what she is saying. It doesn’t support she has a clear thought out purpose for the interview.
Casey Anthony then says she wants to make her daughter proud and to honor her daughter properly. If you look closely she makes a very subtle microexpression of contempt when she says to “honor her properly”. You may struggle to see it. But it is powerful. She is expressing contempt when saying she wants to honor her daughter. That’s a complete contradiction to her words and reveals the truth of what she actually believes.
Furthermore, she says, “I am responsible for answering everyone in the world’s questions about my daughter’s death.” When she says this, she makes the most intense and powerful expression that is a combination of anger and disgust. She is ultimately expressing her emotions that being responsible for answering for her daughter’s death disgusts her and makes her angry!
WOW. That says it all.
Her facial expressions are revealing that she feels completely different to the words she is speaking! It’s utterly mind blowing when you watch it.
Casey feels disgusted that SHE is responsible to answer questions about her daughter’s death! To me that is completely inconsistent to the what she just told us–that she wants to make her daughter proud and honor her properly. It actually reveals that she doesn’t give a damn about her daughter at all. It’s all about her being the victim here, which is typical for her personality type.
She should CARE to get justice for her daughter, but that isn’t even in the cards or consideration, is it? No where does she want to hold George accountable outright nor does she call for it. It’s strikingly missing as are many details of the story she wants us to believe.
Casey says of her work with her defense team that she wants to give back to others as she doesn’t want another person to be “pigeon-holed or railroaded” as she has.
What on earth? Pigeon-holed and railroaded? This is a load of nonsense no matter how you slice this case or what you believe!
Even if we believed Casey’s story–that she is truthful (not saying she is or isn’t here), that she was abused, and that her dad killed Caylee (which I am not saying is the case)–she CANNOT CLAIM she was railroaded. This is total bullshit.
Casey railroaded herselfby her own actions of pathologically lying and her carefree attitude after Caylee went missing. She railroaded herself by stealing and telling lie upon lie upon lie. Don’t let this woman fool you!
An honest person who is having an “honest awakening” would see this and would own up to it–that they railroaded themselves even if it was a horrible situation.
Casey later then plays the other side of the story and says, “I made myself look crazy…as far as I am concerned there is no justifying my actions or behavior.” This is a ploy to keep people thinking, see she is honest! It’s a manipulative tactic!
Several times in the interview, we hear Casey refer to Caylee as the “kid”. Did you notice? This is distancing herself from her child who she claims to want to honor. I find it deeply troubling. Would you refer to your dear sweet child who was murdered or killed as “kid”? It has zero endearment! I doubt many parents of lost children would.
I think many people will be thrown for a loop by the testimonials of people who say Casey loved Caylee. Did it make you question yourself? Let me say this: Manipulators will often play a loving mother, a caring kind person in front of others, but once the door closes–the truth is very different. And here, we have evidence of that when Casey complains of not being able to have fun due to motherhood in texts to her friend Richardo on Facebook. She texts about Caylee, “I’m going crazy over here. At least the kid is passed out.” Does that sound like a loving mother? It doesn’t.
When I watch George Anthony talk to investigators about the last time he saw Caylee, I see no indicators that he is lying.
Casey is HONEST when she says that she felt “nothing” when talking to the 911 operators. I found that fascinating that she would admit it. She knows this is off and calls it “weird”. She knows she doesn’t feel normal emotions of loss and empathy. It puzzles even her.
The other element I have trouble with in this interview is that if Casey wants to accuse her father of rape and murder, then own it 100%. Say it clearly, but instead she is very convoluted when you listen to her accusations. She says things in twisted ways and beats around the bush. It’s hard to swallow. I see it as manipulative. Could there have been abuse? Yes, there could have been. I can’t rule it out by watching her as she does show some emotional response, but I can’t say conclusively either because she is such a pathological liar. It would take more interviews to say conclusively, and at what level.
Casey says, “Over the past few months, I’ve been really having vivid dreams and its obvious that they are dreams of things that have already happened. I “THINK” my dad used to do the same thing to me.”
Think??? She doesn’t know??? She is clearly evasive and indirect–continually, which is suspicious. She just can’t quite own it outright, directly and call for accountability for her daughter–which clearly supports what we saw in the beginning of this interview. It isn’t actually about Caylee. It’s about HER.
Casey tells you that she lied her whole life because that was what was expected of her. And then she changes her tune and says, “I completely replicated by father’s behavior during those 31 days.” Only during those 31 days??!! The insanity.
She goes on to say, “I used and manipulated all of the people around me in an attempt to appear normal.” You used and manipulated people to appear normal? How ridiculous–she is just excusing her behavior with no accountability. None whatsoever.
When Casey says about her tattoo “Bella Vita”, “It was a fuck you to my family.” That is true without question. But it likely is much darker than that. It was to the world. She was finally free, I think, of Caylee, and that was her celebration. It’s horrible to think about.
Another chilling part in the interview for me is when Casey says about getting the tattoo, ” I got the tattoo in the first place, especially during that time period because that was a subconscious way for me to a…(grin) speak out against all of it.”
Her story of being raped as to how she conceived Caylee is questionable. There are hot spots throughout. She leaves off pronouns, she has subtle undertones of positive emotions the entire time she is talking about it, and then she says, “The first person I would have told would have been my mom. Would she have believed me?”
Would have told? That’s an “as if it happened” statement — not a memory! A real recollection would have been, I couldn’t tell my mom! She never would have believed me, or she would have blamed me or whatever. So I call B.S. on that one.
When she talks about how soon she figured out she was pregnant, she says almost immediately. We see disgust here. She was clearly disgusted she was pregnant yet tells us earlier that getting pregnant with Caylee was the best thing that ever happened to her. She is constantly playing both sides.
When Casey cries over how it all hurts her, in my opinion, she is crying over HER pain from the ordeal–of being social isolated, rejected and not able to have a public life anymore. I don’t see any sadness for Caylee whatsoever. I think she did this interview in hopes of gaining sympathy and maybe some acceptance. Life has thrown her to the curb, without question.
Many people think Caylee died by accident. I want to say that I do NOT see any evidence of that. And this is why: If Caylee died by accident –which could be in the pool or by a drug overdose from sleeping medication given to her by Casey–then Casey would have some emotional response to that because she would have lost her daughter to an accident — unexpectedly. She wouldn’t have gone out and celebrated and partied for 30 days. She would have felt the pain of that. She would have reacted differently.
No, this story is much, much darker. This is a woman who tired of her “kid”, who wanted to party with the other young adults her age, and Casey, in her dark moments, ended that life, and was very happy about it as we have evidence by that tattoo and life in those 30 days. You do not see a woman who is mourning the accidental death of her child. That information there tells the truth more loud and clear than anything else.
How could she have done it? Remembering that Casey tells half-truths, I wonder if the pillow talk she gave saying it was her dad putting a pillow on her to knock her out, was actually her projecting what she did to her child. It sure makes me wonder.
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Ever since we had the Steven Avery documentary on Netflix, Making a Murderer, in 2015, I don’t have much faith in shows like this to be hard-sleuthed for the truth. I expect purely sensational TV for ratings–not hard investigative journalism. So forgive me, I do not have much hope in this latest feature on Casey Anthony coming out by Peacock at the end of November to reveal anything. I suspect it will just be an entertainment piece that benefits the network and possibly even Casey Anthony here. However, I will look at it (if I have access) and keep my eyes and ears open. I do care about the truth.
And I want to share the truth–especially if I see an evil person misleading people. But keep yourself neutral here. Let’s listen.
When I watch the promo above, the first thing we see is Casey Anthony angrily stating, “No one asked why!”
It immediately puts you on edge and makes you feel alarmed, doesn’t it? Like did you ask why?!!??
A bit of, “What is wrong with YOU here?”
Am I right?
But wait a minute, this is a victim stance–a stance many toxic perpetrators do! They play victim!!
Alert–this is a BIG red flag for me. My walls of protection are pulling upward.
Is Casey Anthony a victim?
She surely wants you to believe she is.
By doing this, she immediately puts you on the defensive and attacks YOU to keep the target off of HER.
Swift, clever and fast, it’s rather mind-boggling, isn’t it?
Hold on to your pants, don’t recoil at her embolden behavior at this point.
Take note and don’t allow her to make you second guess yourself and your emotional response.
That is exactly what she wants.
Realign yourself. Think about her statement logically.
Hold your emotions and your truth in check. This is essential.
She is trying to act like she was railroaded, but folks, Casey Anthony faced a death-penalty trial. She had a platform to give her defense, to tell her story, to tell the WHY, to honor her daughter, right? She is acting like she could never say why before. Is that reasonable or true?
It’s not.
This is actually GASLIGHTING. It’s meant to do all the things I said above –to disorient you, confuse you and make you question yourself and not her.
It’s to throw you off-center, and it works against most people when used as Casey Anthony has above.
Did she succeed in gaslighting you?
Her statement here: It’s completely inconsistent immediately, it denies reality and doesn’t support an element of truth.
We all know one thing. Casey Anthony is a pathological liar, so tread cautiously.
Please note this piece was an edited cut and we do not know the entire conversation, so I am putting in a caveat here that given the entire conversation, there is a slight chance it could change how it is understood and interpreted. I reserve the right to adjust my assessment when given more information.
So while it is a huge ALERT and red flag for me here, it is important to see the entire conversation to make a solid judgement, but it will be very hard for her to make this come out any other way. So let’s take what we’ve seen so far, and file it under a strong red flag.
Find your ground, hold your truth and what you’ve known from the past (don’t question it) and listen logically. Hold your emotions of out this! Let’s see what comes next…
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If you watched the Bachelorette last night, there was a very revealing moment on the show when Rachel revealed to Tino that he was the only one left. Did you catch it?
I was trying to find a video clip of that moment and can’t seem to locate one online. If you find one, please do share a link!
If you watched that reveal moment between Rachel and Tino, you may have had a niggle that something wasn’t right.
The internet is a buzz with the fact that Tino’s face was flat–utterly emotionless. They are 100% correct in that assessment. It stood out.
But if you were paying close attention, you would have caught Tino’s smile utterly dropping off his face!
It was most pronounced if you watched the right side of his face. It slipped off!! He was NOT happy to hear he was the last one standing.
How gutting that was to watch!
I imagined seeing that if I were Rachel. Rachel didn’t seem to register it, sadly.
Tino seemed to enjoy Rachel and was truly happy around her many times as seen in the photo above. That was genuine.
But it appears, from that slip of the smile, Tino actually wanted to win the contest, rather than win Rachel and propose!
Ouch!!
So it wasn’t a surprise they didn’t last.
I don’t know what happened with the cheating incident, but you have to question, could that have been a passive aggressive move to dump Rachel because he wasn’t invested in her? It certainly can’t be ruled out.
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When I watch Amber Heard in these segments, I see true and authentic raw emotions.
Emotions that you do not and cannot fake when telling a lie.
To cognitively balance telling a lie and managing to make these expressions accurately and in perfect timing to her verbal message–that’s impossible to do. This only happens when we truly experience a situation.
Heard expresses disgust repeatedly in a very short period of time which is supportive of the truth and the situation she has described.
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