Emotional Connections Elevate Attractiveness

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What is your most attractive feature? What do you think is the single most important element about you that draws other people to you?

Many people will say their smile, beautiful hair, outgoing personality, and so forth.  And these may initially draw someone to you, but what keeps them?

Could it be your ability to emotionally connect with others? Could that play a big role in your attractiveness?

That’s what a scientific study has revealed. Click here to read more.

It makes sense when you think about it.

People who “get us” are more appealing to us then those who don’t, but did you ever think about it concrete terms of emotionally connecting?  We often think of attraction as physical not emotional.

We all have a need to relate to other people, to be accepted and the more we are able to connect with people on an emotional level, the more attractive we become.

You’ve probably encountered this before. You meet someone you consider average in looks. Then you talk to them and next thing you know you find them really good looking, when maybe an hour before you didn’t. You formed an emotional connection.

It’s fascinating, isn’t it?

Understanding emotional expressions should help you connect with more people because the sooner you can read an emotion on someone’s face — the faster you can “relate” to how they are feeling. Want to learn how to read emotions and relate to people better?  Check out Renee’s training!

Now they need to do a study on relationship successes of people who can read facial expressions accurately.  Do they have more successful relationships?

I suspect the answer would yes.  What do you think?

 

Debbie Hawk’s Remains Found

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For those of you who have followed me, you may remember the case of Dave and Debbie Hawk.  They were disputing child care costs in a legal dispute when Debbie, then 47, went missing.  She simply vanished, though her blood was found at her home by her young children when Dave dropped them off after a visitation.

Two weeks ago, workers in a field unearthed a body of an unknown female, and detectives immediately wondered if it was Debbie Hawk.

They were correct. It was. Debbie has finally been found.

I analyzed Dave Hawk back in 2007. You can read my analysis here.

I was also interviewed for an article in the Hanford Sentinel in 2010.  You can read the article here.

I am relieved for Debbie Hawk’s family and children as there has to be some comfort in bringing her home.

In 2009, Dave Hawk was convicted of murdering Debbie Hawk.

Facial Expression of the Day/Testimonial

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Is that a happy genuine smile or a social smile?

There are marker that identify each. Do you know what they are?

If you don’t, I highly recommend my course, “How to Spot A Liar:  Master Class”   In the course, I teach you how to understand human behavior first and foremost, and then I teach you when behavior is abnormal and indicates deception. Participants from my class tell me they feel like they learned a whole new language after learning my techniques!

For more information, click here.

Here is a video testimonial of the class from Brent Frethey!  Thanks, Brent!

See more video testimonials here, or read Renee’s written testimonials here.

Subconscious Lie Detection Better Than Conscious

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A study out of the University of California, Berkeley, found that we are better at picking up deception with our subconscious brain. It appears when we consciously try to spot a lie, we interfere with our innate system.

You know the old saying, “Don’t second guess yourself” or “Trust your first gut instinct”.  There is definitely something to this.

Dr. David Eagleman, a neuroscientist, out of Baylor University, says our conscious brain is only a small portion of our brain.  In his terms, its the “broom closet” of our mind. Most of what goes on in our head is unknown to us, though it is the engine by which we move and make decisions. It happens as Eagleman says “under the hood”–under your conscious awareness.

So the next time you wonder what is going on, and you don’t know for sure, you are probably best to trust your gut instinct rather than question it.

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