Mary Winkler gets Manslaughter

Last night, the jury came back with voluntary manslaughter for Mary Winkler.

With that, I wanted to read the police report again, because I remembered something else that was a hot spot for me. But instead of finding the police report, I found Mary’s confession — which was transcribed as she spoke. You can find it here.

I find this document to be interesting. What Mary says seems to be inconsistent with a woman who accidentally shot her husband.

(1) “I don’t know of anything he specifically said or did to me to upset me, but I had an uneasiness about me. I remember not sleeping well.”

Usually when women reach their breaking point with their husbands, especially when they are abusive, there is a breaking point. There is a moment, a memorable moment that sets them off, that makes them snap. This is odd. Either this isn’t the truth, or perhaps she didn’t snap – but premeditated this?

(2) “The next morning, the alarm went off 6-6:30 and I got up. He was still in bed. I don’t think I left the room. He had a shotgun he kept in the closet just in case. I don’t remember going to the closet or getting the gun. The next thing I remember was hearing a loud boom, and I remember thinking that it wasn’t as loud as I thought it would be.”

If you shot your husband by accident, you don’t have any preconceived notions about how loud a gunshot would sound if you didn’t anticipate discharging it, would you? Doesn’t this hint at premeditation?

(3) “I heard the boom and he rolled out of the bed onto the floor and I saw some blood on the floor and some bleeding around his mouth. I went over and wiped his mouth off with a sheet. I told him I was sorry and that I loved him, and I went and ran.

I do remember me holding the shotgun, hearing the boom, and then the smell. He asked me why and I just said I was sorry.”

She was so calm, she just wiped away the blood — as if she was resolved to the outcome, wouldn’t you say? She obviously wasn’t in shock about what she just did, was she?

If she was truly boiling over from abuse when her husband asked her why she did what she did — would you expect that she would tell him? “You were a bastard! You deserved this!!” Perhaps she did — but she wasn’t going to admit to it?

Furthermore, if she shot him “by accident” — and he was still taking — why didn’t she call the police? She left him to die, knowingly.

(4) “Patricia came to the hallway and asked what was going on, and I told her Daddy was hurt and I told her we were leaving.”

She even has enough reason about her to talk rationally to her daughter and say that daddy is hurt. It obviously registered what she had done.

(5) “That Tuesday night, we had also talked about our finances that night. I had gotten a call from the bank and we were having troubles, mostly my fault, bad bookkeeping. He was upset with me about that. I was upset at him because he had really been on me lately, criticising me for things, the way I walk, what I eat, everything. I was just tired of it. I guess I just got to a point and snapped.”

I find the choice of the word “guess” interesting. You know you either snapped or you didn’t. You don’t guess that you did — for no apparent reason.

Does this sound like a woman whose husband was horrible to her? As I have seen this morning, Mary was involved in a check fraud scam of sorts — and if her husband knew about it as she suggests above — if he was abusive — don’t you think he would have really let her have it here? She is admitting it was mostly her fault, and she doesn’t say he hurt her in anyway. Earlier she even says “I don’t know of anything he specifically said or did to me to upset me, but I had an uneasiness about me. I remember not sleeping well.” This is a complete contradiction.

What a complete tragedy.

I have to admit, I double-checked the documents source — it seems so unreal.

Mary Winkler Case

The Mary Winkler case has gone to the jury today. While I haven’t followed the court case because I’ve been busy with work, I did look for a video of Mary Winkler’s testimony this morning.

You can see the video I saw by clicking on this link.

Move the video to time marker 6:55. Then watch Mary when she listens to the person questioning her. He says, “Did you intentionally, purposefully kill your husband?”

At time marker 7:01 — watch Mary’s expression.

What do you see?

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My personal opinion: I don’t believe Mary Winkler accidentally killed her husband.

When the man in the video says “Did you intentionally…” — at the point he says the word “intentionally” – Mary Winkler grins the most eerie grin I have seen in a long, long time. It’s bone-chilling! The grin lasts only for a split-second and disappears but that expression is very telling as to what Mary really believes…

Resume Lies

CNN has a good article on “Resumes Lies you can’t get away with”:

Although just 5 percent of workers actually admit to fibbing on their resumes, 57 percent of hiring managers say they have caught a lie on a candidate’s application, according to a CareerBuilder.com survey.

Of the hiring managers who caught a lie, 93 percent didn’t hire the candidate.

Read more here

Baseball Games and Movies

Yesterday, I attended a major league baseball game with my husband and some friends. I hadn’t been to a baseball game in years- some where in the order of 15-20 years. Needless to say, I pretty much forgot the game, and only remembered the rules when I saw the game come back to life.

What was funny, however, was that I would be chatting away with our friends when I’d look out into the field, and I noticed body posture. It was fascinating. I’d say to my husband, it must be going pretty slow because those guys are bored stiff. Look at how that guy is standing! Look at this other guy. His shoulders are slumped, his arms and legs are loose, and noodle-like. He isn’t anymore interested in being here than waiting at a bus stop.

Go ahead, shoot me, but it’s true!

Then, next time I looked, I saw everyone standing erect, intently focused and on high alert. Bodies were stiff, heads moved swiftly, and sharply. Attention was highly focused–all across the board.

My husband laughed as he’d try to catch me up to what was going on. Of course, he told me, two men were on base and had the potential to make two home runs. Both teams were intently focused. I was too busy chatting to notice that. I just noticed body posture, thank you very much.

One time, I pointed to a guy and I said that guy there, he is on a mission. He is walking with purpose–intense purpose–he has a lot on his mind. My husband laughed and said, “Of course, he is the coach.” Oops. I didn’t realize that! You can clearly see I wasn’t watching the game. I was too busy conversing and noticing body posture.

I can’t help it. It just starred back at me. It was just there, and interesting to see a field of people all display similar postures for the most part, and they’d universal shift from bored to intent–back to bored. It was weird. It certainly was a unique game for me, to say the least.

I wondered for an instant if perhaps that is why I wasn’t a sport enthusiast. How could I get excited over something the players weren’t excited about most of the time? With all things and in fairness to the players, when you do something day in and day out, it becomes dry, boring and mundane. Right?

I also find that I don’t like movies, and one of my readers questioned if perhaps that is because I see actors are “acting”. I’ve always described the fact I don’t like movies because I am a realist and that I like realism. I am not one to do good with make-believe or fantasy. Science fiction makes me yawn tears. I crave realism.

I did recently go to a movie since I’ve come to know that I see lies, and it did change my movie-going experience. I have to admit. I started seeing facial expressions that were out-of-place. I watched one actor struggle in a difficult scene to get the correct emotional response, and he missed it. He just wasn’t able to bring himself to the spot he hoped too. His expression just didn’t make sense.

Yet, there were other times where this actor really hit the emotions on the head, and his facial expressions were smack dab-on, and it grabbed me into the movie. I become lost in the wonder of it all. Some actors get it so right, so perfect, that I am in awe of their ability to do what they do. It’s simply amazing! I don’t think I could act for all the tea in China. I am too much of a realist 🙂

Do you relate?

“I told you so”

The truth was finally revealed today that Larry Birkhead is the father of Dannielynn. I am so happy for Larry Birkhead and Dannielynn.

Back in October — seven months ago –when I gave my original opinion on Larry Birkhead that I believed him and that I didn’t trust Stern– I was the odd ball out.

Many people believed Howard K. Stern because Anna Nicole sat beside him in support. But thankfully, as the months wore on and people saw the behavior of Howard Stern, they started to doubt him.

It’s such a joy today to know that Howard can’t go around telling us all like a drone that he believes he is the baby’s father anymore. He certainly didn’t behave like he believed he was the father even for a day.

Here are my posts and reviews of Larry Birkhead and Howard K. Stern:

October 4th, 2006
I believe, therefore I am

February 27, 2007
Stern Video Review (Larry King Live)

February 28, 2007
Video Review of Larry Birkhead

Now I can add two more people that I have accurately read months before the truth revealed itself. I will put them in my “Dishonesty Caught to Date” and “Truth tellers who I believed” section to the right. That brings my total 8-0!

P.S. I just watched Howard K. Stern speak about how he is disappointed about the outcome. If you watch Stern in this video compared to when he was on Larry King Live — notice the difference in his expressions. Now he is expressive, and showing his emotions. His reactions, responses and expression are NORMAL. They are not subdued. It’s a tremendous difference!