Dalia Dippolito hired a hit man to kill her husband. What she didn’t know was this hit man was an undercover cop. The story is fascinating because we get to see a suspected psychopath do her dirty work. The police have recently released a video of Dalia talking to the uncover cop, asking him to kill her husband. It’s bone chilling. You can read more here and see another video as well.

Read moreMike, her to-be-killed husband says when he watches her on tape, “It’s like she is ordering a cheese sandwich asking someone to kill me. It’s unbelievable.”

I’ve pointed out countless times that killers often are lacking the appropriate emotions and when they discuss topics that should elicit a notable emotional response, they often come across as if it is just another typical day, in essence, totally flat. A lack of emotions is equally as important as inappropriate emotions, it is just so many people discount it.

Oprah once said, “When people tell you who they are, believe them.” Dalia doesn’t hesitate to tell this undercover cop who she is. She says, “I’m a lot tougher than what I look. I know you are thinking, ‘What a cute little girl, or whatever. You know, but I’m not.'”

How many times has someone said to you, “I’m not half as nice as you think I am” and you just discount it? Many people often think people are hard on themselves, so when they say something negative like this, they immediately respond back, “Oh no, you aren’t like that at all.” More often than not, when someone puts themselves down in a negative light like this, we actually sympathize and empathize with them. We feel sorry for them, which is counterintuitive.

Denial is a very dangerous thing. When someone says something negative about themselves, I take it as gospel. I believe them. This is very important advice. It can save you from heartache, or much worse. Let’s put it this way, I would never call myself something I don’t think I am. Would you?

One last thing, Michael Dippolito met Dalia when she was working as an escort. He should have always calculated in that Dalia would do anything for money, or she likely wouldn’t have worked in the shadowy business of escorts. Had he done that from day one, he would have likely been suspicious of her and acted a lot sooner, which could have saved him from a lot of heartache.

Just food for thought.