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Hotspots in Jesse James Words

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In this interview, it is interesting to listen to the slip-up made by Jesse James.

Piers Morgan: What do you think when you hear that back?

Jesse James: Ah, it just kind of takes me back to that day. It was sad.  It’s tough…it’s tough to tell someone something…someone that you love, it tough to tell them something when you know when you tell them that you are never going to see them again.

Morgan: And you knew that then?

James: Yeah, I’m… I was pretty sure.

HOTSPOT EXPLAINED

“I’m…”  as in “I am…pretty sure.” Why would he be thinking in present tense? This doesn’t make sense. He slipped here.  I bet most people won’t hear it when he says it.

I went out and read about Sandra’s reaction to his book, and interestingly a source close to Sandra is telling the media, “He didn’t warn her about the book at all — she had no idea he was even considering it until after he’d signed the contract,” She’s devastated. Sandra’s told Jesse they can no longer be friends — even for the kids’ sake. She decided she has to herself first. She couldn’t deal with him anymore.”

Interesting, huh?

I personally wouldn’t trust Jesse James farther than I could see him.

Thanks to Karon for the story suggestion!

Jesse James: Be Warned

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You can see all the interview at RadarOnline.

When I watch Jesse James in the interview from ABC’s Nightline, I see a man who feels threatened by Sandra. I absolutely believe him when he says, “It’s about trying to push someone away that I thought was going to leave anyway.” At another point in the interview, he says, “I never felt good enough for anyone.” When James says this, I absolutely believe him.

I personally believe James saw what Sandra was made of, and felt he could never complete. Instead of dealing with his shortcomings and improving himself, James took the easy way out and indulged himself with people that made him feel worthy and important–without any regard for how that would impact his marriage or his children.

It appears this is all about James, and no one else.

James wants to feel like he is the top dog and that’s where he strayed–in circles where he felt he was the star. With Sandra, he was never going to get that. That’s why I think he truly wanted to get caught. I think he wanted his marriage to end, because he couldn’t handle Sandra getting all the attention. It just reinforced to James all of his shortcomings and he didn’t want any part of that!

James is strangely arrogant, if you ask me, which I wouldn’t expect if he was truly remorseful for what he did. While he owns up to his actions in words, his emotions are completely void and unsupportive. I simply see a man saying what he has to say without any conviction or buy in.

The only pain James feels is when he cries over his pain. This behavior, if you ask me, is a recipe for James to continue to be destructive towards others in his life. For me, it is a big warning to thread carefully. Arrogance and a lack of remorse are quite a devastating combination for those who come into James’ inner circle.

Thanks, to Celebitchy, for the story lead.