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School Board Gunman had “Grimace”

A man whose wife was fired by a school board in Panama City, Florida, came to a school board meeting wielding a gun Tuesday, spray painted a circle with a “V” on the wall, and ordered the women out of the room as he pointed a gun at the men on the board.

Bay City Schools Superintendent Bill Husfelt said, “”He had that look in his eyes. I’ve seen anger before, and he almost had like a grimace, a smile. He had planned to do this and we knew it wasn’t going to end well.”

Husfelt, in a tragic time, quickly put together the inconsistencies in perpetrator Clay Duke’s behavior.  He also knew to take Duke seriously and trust him when Duke said he was going to die that day.   He trusted what was likely gut responses because in these split seconds he didn’t have time to think things through.  In hindsight, I suspect he remembered the clues.

I have to wonder if that grimace was an expression of contempt.

Bill Husfelt talks about this incident and recalls it.  He displays a classic expression of sadness in his eyebrows that is painful to watch.  You can see by simply looking at Husfelt’s face he is very sad about what happened.

Duke left a message behind on his Facebook page. He wrote,  “Some people will say I was an evil monster…no…I was just born poor in a country where the wealthy manipulate.” 

What a tragedy.

Kiesha Abrahams’ Mom Speaks Out

Kristi Abraham, whose 6-year old daughter went missing in July in Sydney, Australia, shows her anger when she talks about people who are using her missing daughter’s name for a flea market every Saturday. They have raised over $300 Australian dollars by charging people who sell things a few dollars to participate. The people who raised the money say they plan on having a jumping castle in honor of Kiesha at Christmas. Kristi is clearly not happy.

You would think Kristi would be happy people are keeping her daughter’s name in the public’s eye, wouldn’t you? 

To read my thoughts on Kiesha’s parents, click here. Then scroll down as posts are in reverse chronological order.

Thanks, Leah, for the story update.

Rosie O’Donnell on Oprah Being Gay

Well said, Rosie!

The Head Shake

Photo by: DFI/AAD/starmaxinc.com  2010  12/7/10 Kim Kardashian at the launch of her Brissmor Watch Collection. (Hollywood, CA)  Photo via Newscom
Kim Kardashian

People often shake their head for a variety of reasons.  Some times people shake their head in disbelief.  Sometimes they shake their head in amazement, like when they’d say “I can’t believe how big that wave was.” Other times they shake their head  to mean no.  Just because someone shakes their head left to right (or vice versa) when they say something that is affirmative, doesn’t mean it is a sign of deception or they don’t believe what they are saying.

Head shakes are quite tricky business if you don’t have a deep understanding of human nature, and I caution people not to use head shakes as hot spots or clues unless you understand the nuances.

As with all clues to deception, for every clue you tell me that indicates a lie, I can find an honest person who does the same thing.

For beginners, when you are looking for this clue in deception, you want to look for a change between an unconscious action to a conscious correction for it to be a solid clue.

With Kaine Horman, his head shake in this video (which I cannot get to load this morning), does not flag me as inconsistent in any fashion.